In the journey of self-discovery and personal growth, the essence of character stands as the cornerstone of our authenticity.
CHARACTER – Is not who you decide to be after someone pisses you off and YOU CHOOSE to snap or react.
CHARACTER – is not defined by how we react when provoked, but rather by our commitment to being who God called you to be.
God gave me this revelation today. My true character does not want to cause harm to another soul.
This revelation struck me with profound clarity: my true character is fundamentally a force that seeks to uplift rather than harm.
I AM THE GODDESS of LOVE & MOTIVATION….
For the ladies reading this who joined Goddess Unleashed, take the previous sentence and replace it with YOUR I AM.
Are you sticking to being and showing up as your I AM?
Does going off cause harm to another soul?
YES!
“But Kissy, they deserve it”, you say.
Maybe they do deserve it. But do you deserve the punishment for going outside of yourself and not being who God told you to be?
If hurting others isn’t who you truly are, then hurting others is like hurting yourself.
Leviticus 19:18 Love thy neighbors as you love yourself. It’s about the the ethic of reciprocity.
What is reciprocity?
It’s the practice of exchanging things with others for mutual benefit. Think, how will your words/actions BENEFIT YOU?
The thing about you is you have low expectations of people. You THINK your expectations are high, but they are not. If they were high, you would act in a manner that allows you to RECEIVE what you want from them…
You don’t actually BELIEVE that you will/can get what you want from them. Instead you HOPE.
If your actions, words and beliefs don’t benefit you and get YOU what YOU WANT, what are they good for?
This is the SHIFT that brings you back to highest self.
If you stay in GOD CHARACTER during your verbal interactions with others, where else can you exchange communication for something else, that will give you a shift in your embodiment?
What about your sexual interactions… Are you DOING what you really want and BEING who you truly want to be?
For example, are you having sex out of wedlock? Do you truly desire to have sex before marriage or did you allow a man to talk you into it?
All most men do is talk you out of YOUR DESIRES, tricking you into doing what’s best for THEM.
Men are not a woman’s FRIEND in that way.
Ladies, you should have NO PHYSICAL RELATIONS UNTIL ENGAGEMENT or marriage. Bling Bling.
Don’t give a man your body for free, too fast or too cheap. He has to invest in you HANDSOMELY. No matter what red pill men say, YOUR BODY HAS VALUE. It’s your temple.
Sure he will PUSH you to open your legs and come up with things that seem and sound right. Like telling you that you did it for all the other men, so why should he wait. It’s merely a trap and he will lose respect for you because you came down from your mountain tree.
I love to write about relationships, because that’s what shows us our shadows, ways we can improve, and how to fully love ourselves. Yet all most people do is focus on money. I say focus on BOTH.
Life is all about the relationship that you have with yourself. This includes your business and romantic relationships. Even the amount of money you make.
How have you been talking to yourself? You have been receiving, based upon what you have been believing.
Change your beliefs, change your life.
Do you believe that you have to bring masculine energy (of earning money) into the relationship?
Many women are single because they believe they have to struggle and hustle and they bring all the ‘doing energy of work’ into their relationships and are not able to effectively switch from masculine to feminine… but if you learn to truly embody your feminine energy, you will attract both men and money.
Listen, the past is done. It’s time to be kind to yourself. King enough to believe that you are worthy and deserving of having it all right now.
You’re not the type of woman to make excuses for yourself and that’s cool. But you think everyone else deserves the best. You deserve the best too.
I’m not here to tell you to be something you’re not.
You deserve to be the best version of YOU. I’m here to help you manifest God’s vision for YOUR LIFE.
Who do YOU want to be?
Be HER! be her right now and you will quickly manifest everything you want.
Up until this moment, everything you have been waiting to receive has been waiting on you to BE YOU and DO YOU!
Here is a WORKBOOK for you to gain clarity on who you want to be.
God Bless You Beautiful Goddess, cause THIS IS YOUR YEAR of winning. You are going to WIN, WIN, WIN, no matter.
In fact count TODAY as a WIN. It’s YOUR SEASON of GLORY, to paint a new story.
P.S. You can’t be out here being a weak, reactive ass b*tch. Other people’s action don’t make or break you, because they didn’t create you.
You are under divine instruction. God does not play about you!
Keep things smooth and easy going if that’s who you truly are or truly want to be.
If you are the WILL SNAP type, choose your battles so that people know not to play with you. Don’t go off about anything and everything.
Think positive. Know that God got you. Discard your past embarrassment. You are brand new again. This life is all about YOU, YOUR SUCCESS, and what YOU want.
A man can only ADD to that, and if not he needs to keep it moving.
You are not here to settle for less. The man of your dreams won’t like you doing so anyway.
He wants you to be all of YOU.
And if he doesn’t like who you currently are, he’s not the right man. The right man will love you as is and look forward to the expanded version of you too.